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Dear Real Man...a letter of CHASTITY.

Dear Real Man,  LOVE " bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." 1 Corinthians 13:7   I will admit it. I am a lover of the bad boy persona. For as long as I can remember, I have been intrigued, almost captivated, by the boy who stood out for being a trouble maker, way cool, or just bad enough. Somewhere in my heart, my longing for love led me to these boys who were from the start TROUBLE. What the heck was wrong with me?  All my life, I have struggled to trust. Too many times in my life I have been let down by men. Growing up, when I needed them to come through on my behalf, they did not. And in my heart I built a defense. I let myself fall, but never for the right type of man. I let myself be intrigued by the bad boy, and blind to the real man.  It is easy not to be disappointed by someone who you expect to let you down. It is easy to accept someone treating you poorly, when that's what you expect from them. It is easy to be f